January 2026
High-Conflict Co-Parenting: Nurturing Children When Parents Are at Odds
High-conflict co-parenting occurs when separated, divorced, or never married parents remain locked in ongoing disputes marked by hostility, mistrust, and poor communication. While conflict between adults is not uncommon after a relationship ends, high-conflict dynamics are different in both intensity and duration—and they can have serious emotional and psychological consequences for children caught in the middle. At its core, high-conflict co-parenting is usually less about the child’s needs and more about unresolved issues between parents. Communication may be frequent but unproductive, often revolving around blame, control, or past grievances. Simple decisions about school, schedules, or healthcare can escalate into major
November 2024
6 Steps to Handling Mistakes in Parenting
Much is written about parenting, what to do, how to do it, when to do it, and so on. I know there are resources to help parents navigate their shortcomings, but they don’t seem popular or accessible. So, I thought I’d write up something on the topic and how I handle things with my kids. I tell clients all the time that I believe I am a good therapist; however, I am by no means a perfect husband or father. So what do we do when we hit our own negative defaults and wind up creating some sort of emotional
