March 2026
5 Things Men Can Do to Create More Connection in Their Relationship
The Hidden Cost of Constant Connection A lot of men really do love their wives. They care. They want the marriage to work. They’re trying to provide, trying to stay out of conflict, trying to keep things moving. But even with all of that, many of them still end up feeling confused about why the relationship feels distant. They’ll say things like, “I’m here. I’m trying. I don’t know what else she wants from me.” Usually, what’s missing is not effort. It’s a connection. And connection is not built primarily through big moments. It’s built through the way a man
November 2024
6 Steps to Handling Mistakes in Parenting
Much is written about parenting, what to do, how to do it, when to do it, and so on. I know there are resources to help parents navigate their shortcomings, but they don’t seem popular or accessible. So, I thought I’d write up something on the topic and how I handle things with my kids. I tell clients all the time that I believe I am a good therapist; however, I am by no means a perfect husband or father. So what do we do when we hit our own negative defaults and wind up creating some sort of emotional
