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Somewhere along the way, you and your spouse stopped talking about sex the way you used to. Or the conversation never started. Maybe sex stopped happening as often. Maybe it happens, but it feels obligatory, or tense, or like something to get through rather than something you both want. Maybe one of you brings it up, and the other goes quiet, or defensive, or both. If this is where things are, it's worth naming something directly: sexual intimacy is not the problem. It's the celebration. And when a celebration stops, the honest question isn't "how do we get the frequency