March 2026
Is AI Replacing Therapy? A West Texas Perspective
Over the past couple of years, artificial intelligence has become part of everyday life. People are using it to draft emails, plan trips, study for exams, and, increasingly, to ask personal questions about their relationships and mental health. If you’ve ever typed something like: “Is this emotional abuse?” “How do I rebuild trust after an affair?” “Is my drinking becoming a problem?” “Why do I shut down during conflict?” You’re not alone. AI can be helpful. It’s fast, anonymous, and available at 2:00 a.m. when you can’t sleep. For many people in West Texas and Eastern New Mexico, especially in
February 2026
When the Laundry Kills the Mood
Sexual desire, ADHD, and the weirdly intimate battlefield of household chores There’s a special kind of heartbreak in modern adulthood: you finally have a sliver of time, you’re actually feeling a little spark… and then you walk past the overflowing sink, the laundry mountain, or the sticky counter, and your body quietly closes the tabs. For many couples, chores don’t just create conflict—they shape desire. And when ADHD is in the mix, that intersection gets even more intense: not because anyone is lazy or uncaring, but because ADHD changes how attention, time, overwhelm, motivation, and follow-through work in the
Why ‘Let It Go’ Doesn’t Actually Work
We’ve all heard that before. “Just let it go”. “Let it go” sounds great in a children’s musical, but we all know that real life often doesn’t come with a musical resolution and magic palace. While people often mention this with good intentions, this advice can often leave someone feeling frustrated or broken when they can’t seem to do it. If letting go were that simple, most of us would have done it already. When something painful happens in our close relationships, we store that emotional memory. Then old arguments may resurface, certain events trigger us, and we can feel
How to Choose a Therapist When Sex Is Part of What You’re Working On
When sex is one of the issues in therapy: low desire, mismatched libido, porn use, infidelity, erectile or orgasm difficulties, painful sex, shame, trauma, orientation/identity questions, or just feeling stuck, it can be hard to know where to start. The stakes feel higher. You may be concerned about being judged, misunderstood, or pressured into someone else’s values. The good news: there are therapists who are trained, ethical, and genuinely helpful in this area. The trick is knowing how to vet them. Below is a practical guide to finding a therapist who is competent with sexual concerns and a good fit
Listen to Tim White on Beyond the Couch!
Tim White joins Beyond the Couch for a thoughtful and approachable conversation on sexual health. Drawing on his expertise in sex therapy, relationship trauma, and sex addiction, Tim breaks down the six core principles of sexual health into practical takeaways therapists can apply in their work, all while keeping the discussion engaging and refreshingly easy to talk about. Listen To Tim White Now
January 2026
High-Conflict Co-Parenting: Nurturing Children When Parents Are at Odds
High-conflict co-parenting occurs when separated, divorced, or never married parents remain locked in ongoing disputes marked by hostility, mistrust, and poor communication. While conflict between adults is not uncommon after a relationship ends, high-conflict dynamics are different in both intensity and duration—and they can have serious emotional and psychological consequences for children caught in the middle. At its core, high-conflict co-parenting is usually less about the child’s needs and more about unresolved issues between parents. Communication may be frequent but unproductive, often revolving around blame, control, or past grievances. Simple decisions about school, schedules, or healthcare can escalate into major
July 2024
6 Principles of Sexual Health
By: Tim White, MA, LMFT, LSOTP, ASAT, APTT, CST Student Preface I have found the concept of sexual health principles (Braun-Harvey & Vigoritio, 2015) fascinating and helpful in practice over the last few months. As many of my clients know, I am a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. As many of my clients know, I am a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. This certification has given me the insight and ability to help many clients struggling with their sexual behavior. While I am grateful for this training, I have resolved to go further than just helping people with problematic sexual behavior and
April 2020
What Effect is the Quarantine Having on My Relationship with My Partner?
Well like a lot of things in life the answer is that it depends, and I would like to put my thoughts and opinions out for those interested. I’ll start with being quarantined together. I know for some this has been an enhancement for their relationship and for some it has caused significant strife. In the case of the enhancement, it is due to lessened stress at work (furlough) for one person in the couple and therefore more attention being able to be given to the partner still working and that partner’s emotions. In the case of the increase in
